Tuesday, June 22, 2010

rude boy

A close friend of mine StoneGirl, has been married for sometime. She and her man have been in love even before I met her. And in my humble opinion, they are definitely made for each other. Often finishing each other's lines, they also quarrel like siblings. It feels like I've known her my whole life but in actual fact it's only been a few years. That's the kind of friend she is.

So anyway, she recently confided in me that she has fallen in love with someone else. At first I was shocked. I'm not into extra-marital affairs but I am into free love and living for the moment. SO when she told me about it, I didn't know how to react. But that was not the end of my shock. She then went on to tell me that she has fallen in love with a GIRL!! A girl. A girl with boobs and everything else. For as long as I've known her, StoneGirl has been as straight as an arrow. Never even engaging in fake girl-on-girl action in clubs, StoneGirl has always been a little bit boy crazy ;)

So for her to actually fall in love with another girl is kind of a BIG DEAL. And she asked me for advise and what did I tell her? I told her to go for it!! She's never explored this side of her and it's about time she did. I am not one to sit and give advise about thinking about marriage life and the future cos I am all about living for what you have now. So it's not surprising that I told her to pursue this affair.

I'm pretty sure she's nervous as hell about this. And I'm not sure what's the outcome yet but will definitely be there to hold her hand thru-out.

Thursday, June 03, 2010

long hot summer

Why is it that whenever you want to hook up with someone and gonna declare your life to that person, a better hotter person comes along and expresses interest in you OR the person you've been longing for suddenly decides that they want you.

Seriously. Why?